There will always be a gap.
A gap that should be filled by something or by someone.
To somehow earn what needs to be gained.
To somehow feel what it’s like to be full even just for a short period of time.
After all, there is this feeling of uneasiness when you haven’t resolved a problem that needed a two-way talk.
The one that needs understanding has yet to say something but the one that needs to understand can’t always “adjust” and be the “bigger person”. In reality, if the former feels uneasy for his/her fault, the latter feels the same way for being far from normal, believe it or not.